Party | Memoirs of a Geisha | Amsterdam

The word Geisha literally means ‘art person’. During parties, dinners, Japanese tea ceremonies, events or other gatherings, it is the responsibility of the Geishas to engage the guests with conversation, classical Japanese music, song and dance with the ultimate goal of reassuring the guests and focusing on them to feel comfortable. This theme is for al gender identities, to find the Geisha within yourself. 
How can you seduce someone in the most beautiful and elegant way you can possibly imagine? In the next temple party, we will bring in this deep old wisdom of the Geisha. Her elegance, her beauty, her strength, her flexibility and her intelligence. Imagine yourself between the finest people in town, who are dressed up as the artist they had inside for years. Or do you like to wear a beautiful set of lingerie, underwear with on top of that a beautiful kimono? We will bring you in this surrounding with the ambiance of a Japanese tea house, which will bring your nervous system into complete relaxation. After entering, when your eyes are already wonderfully caressed by our Geisha hosts, we will start inviting the energy of eros in. We will do so by connecting exercises and movement or dance. 

Mr. & Mrs. Presents: The mission continues
We, Manon and Mano, were two of the founders of the Mr. & Mrs. parties. Due to different views, not about where to go, but how to go there, we decided to split up with the other founders. So, we still have the same mission as we had with the parties of Mr. & Mrs. and we will continue keeping this mission alive. Ecstatic Temple the Party is more than just a party, it’s a culture, it’s a movement. By organizing this new temple, with some small adaptations we brought in, but meanly you can expect what we did before. A night full of memorable experiences. In these beautiful deepening events, you will experience authentic connection, intimacy and growth of consciousness. You will expand and liberate captured parts within yourself. 
Our temples parties are inspired by Taoism, Tantra and Transformational sexual energy. By this we mean that we use sexual energy to uplift the crowd and bring in eros to transcend together to another dimension. Also to transform blockages, shame, impressions, dogmas and suppression of you as a sexual human being. All of this so we can connect to our authentic selves. During our temple parties, powerful protocols and ancient wisdom will be used to help us transform at deeper energetical levels.
Our temple parties are always hosted at a beautiful location with pure spirits. By pure spirits we mean people who walk the path of self-consciousness and personal development and growth. Spirits who admire to take good care of themselves as human beings and whose energies becomes more refined. It’s going to be a night to remember. 

Safe space
If this would be your first time coming to a temple, you might be nervous or find it exciting. And that makes sense. It really does take some courage to take the step and join. But almost everyone who joined the first time and was nervous, tells afterwards it was all worth the tension before. And actually, that there’s nothing to be nervous about. Because it really feels like a safe space for everyone. Are you curious about visiting a temple but also nervous? Let us explain what you can expect. 
Upon arrival, we first start by taking moments to relax. It is important that everyone feels safe. That is why we always start by calming down the nervous system. At the beginning we clearly explain to the mind what the evening entails, what is allowed and what is not. We will tell you more about what we do to keep this a safe space during the evening. Safety always starts with yourself. Feeling and keeping yourself safe is essential and we will help you with that. This does not mean that you cannot be triggered. It does mean that if you get triggered, we are there to help you through this trigger. Then, we slowly move on to connecting exercises. Sometimes familiar, sometimes new exercises. Each temple party is inspired by elements such as connection, boundaries, consent, safety and eros. 

The Temple
Around 9 PM it is time to open the free flow part of the evening. We will invite the best temple priest and priestesses we can. So, for those who prefer: there will be some kind of facilitating and guidance. But this temple evening cannot be compared to a more private temple with less people. 
A temple can be seen as a safe space with a very high sexual energy field. As we all have the capability to soultravel to other timelines and dimensions, we can all tap into the field of sexual trauma. For those among us who have suffered from that in this lifetime, this sexual energyfield in the temple can be triggering. The space holders are trauma informed and can guide you through those triggers. If you know you are easily triggered, please tell our team. In the end, this field can help to heal parts from your trauma. 
Being in this beautiful safe space including the high sexual energy field, where you are conscious of your own boundaries, can be very healing. A space holder who occasionally checks in with you to see if you are okay during an exchange gives deep relaxation to your system. We also want to achieve mastery over sexual energy. Sexual energy is the most powerful creative energy found in this universe. With this energy you can shape your world. Our evenings give a boost to your manifesting power. This space is created and welcomes all of you and it also request more self-sustainability. Quite a lot is allowed, but under certain conditions. Penetration of the lingam in yoni or anus is not allowed. Oral adventures are fine with us, if you have explicit consent, but you must keep your underwear on. So be creative. If you have any doubts if this party is for you, please contact us. 

Our Temples are built on a few basic principles
Δ Safety is the foundation upon which we build our temples. 
Δ We see the body as a temple. Treat yourself and others with love and respect. The evening is alcohol and substance free. Of course, you can get naturally high, while enjoying the ride.
Δ Integrity to yourself. You decide at any time whether you participate in something and how. We regularly check whether you are okay. If we detect any doubts, we will help you to take the time to really feel what is right for you at that moment before you take the next step. You are ultimately responsible for your limits. We will offer sufficient check-in moments in which you are invited to check if an exercise or exchange is serving your soul path.
Δ Integrity to others. Everything you experience stays indoors. If you want to enthuse someone about our temple, feel free to tell them about your experience. We do ask that you keep the identities of others to yourself. 
Δ All emotions are welcome, but not when it is projected onto another person. Trainers, space holders and participants can stop the exercise at any time.

FAQ
What is a Temple Party?
For us it means that we set the field for intimacy and make it as sacred as possible. We bring a big team of space holders who can help people if they are triggered or dissociated. But, as this will be a group over 200 people, you have more responsibility for yourself. If you feel you are triggered, you better stop what you are doing or go slower. In a more private temple, we would encourage you to go through this triggered place. Because this is a party, our aim is to have the best night ever. But in the same time, we can not avoid al the triggers. And if they are there, we will collectively deal with it. 


Details & Practicalities
Δ This theme is a barefoot edition or better to say: without shoes
Δ The at a beautiful location in the center of Amsterdam
Δ We open the doors at 6.30 PM and will be open till 7.15 PM. The night starts from the moment you step in!
Δ Dress code will be sacred and sexy. How would the artist in you like to be dressed? Is this in lingerie, nice underwear and a beautiful kimono? Or stylish authentic dressed as a Geisha? Be authentic, be bold, be you!
Δ Around 00.30, we will end with a closing ceremony. 01.00 leaving the venue
Δ Contribution: early bird € 99,- normal bird € 119,- and late bird € 139,- incl. VAT, prices includes bites, a welcome drink, coins for soda drinks and water and tea.
Δ Ticket are non-refundable. If we have a waiting list, we will assist by offering the tickets to other guests. 
Δ Language: English
Δ If you have any questions, please send us an email to info@ecstatictemple.nl


We, the whole team, are looking so much forward to meet you at our Ecstatic Temple the Party. 

With love,

Mano & Manon & Team